I am sharing LOTS of pictures today.
It has been a week full of Thanksgiving.
Don't get me wrong, I do my best to say THANK YOU to God every day, and I try to be mindful each day on my fb wall to remind us to use our gifts and to be KIND.
This is the first time since Mother died that I felt like making her Chicken and Dressing and actually making a Thanksgiving meal for me and Charcoal.
It felt good to be ME again, for just a little bit...
BUT true to form, Satan threw his darts and I allowed someone to steal my JOY, BUT I am doing my best to turn the other cheek and forget about them.
I shared Mother's recipe with lots of people.
Some people, again, true to form, thought I was saying that they should use my recipe and not theirs...
All of the ingredients gathered and ready to mix |
That ABSOLUTELY was not my intent.
I am the last one in my family to make this recipe.
I have no one to pass it to.
I was simply sharing MY RECIPE, in hopes, that someone could carry on the tradition, IF they didn't have a recipe.
I mix everything together before I add the chicken broth so that the spices are evenly distributed and so that the egg won't cook as soon as that boiling broth hits them! |
I believe that You SHOULD love what you were raised with.
I think you SHOULD love your tradition and carry it on.
Nobody has a better tradition than anyone else.
We SHOULD embrace the things we love.
Look at that beautiful broth! Made simply by cooking a whole chicken in water. Nothing fancy, but oh, so yummy. |
BUT I also want to remind each of you, that things change.
People come.
People go.
It is the cycle of life.
This was after some broth was added. I let it soak a few minute so the broth can be absorbed |
SOMETIMES, traditions have to change.
Don't hold on to things that cause too much stress.
At some point, the one who always did it all will need help.
Help them with JOY.
Look forward to spending time with the PEOPLE
and not focusing on the THINGS.
This is after another round of broth has been added. Again, let the cornbread absorb the liquid, but I think this is just about the right consistency! |
As we get older and look back on our life,
most of us,
if we have allowed our hearts to absorb the moments,
will notice that it really was not
the THINGS that mattered,
but the people that were important.
We debone the chicken and place it in the bottom of the pan and pour the dressing on top. It is true, in the South, we tend to turn most everything into a casserole! LOL I am OK with that! |
What mattered was/is the
Moments spent with people who are no longer around.
Those empty chairs can spark memories
but they sure can bring guilt to a person, too.
Oh, and that yummy golden brown of the prepared dressing!! Do I dare taste it before Thanksgiving? |
Love people while they are HERE.
Give them flowers while they are around to enjoy them.
Yep, I couldn't wait and I tried it BEFORE Thanksgiving~~The NERVE of me! |
I tried to give Charcoal a bite of the dressing, too.
He isn't the biggest fan of Cornbread, but he does eat it..
He was CERTAIN this must be terrible...
When I showed him that it was CHICKEN,
He decided that maybe I was not trying to torture him.
Ah, it must have been good and it made him sleepy...
Or maybe he was saying a prayer of Thanksgiving!
I don't think that Life can get must better than this!
To have him cuddle with me or
to lay his head on my leg,
MAN,
this is the life!
For those who judge me and think I would EVER give Charcoal food to harm him, Then they know NOTHING about me at all.
He eats healthier than I do.
NEVER would I ever cause any harm to him, so get over yourself!
Charcoal got a REAL treat from his Uncle Kevin.
I wasn't sure if I should cook it, or just give it to him.
He nuzzled and sniffed the package for a day.
I then cut open the package--more sniffing.
I partially pulled it from the package--one lick and more sniffing.
He then pulled it all the way out--a lick and more sniffing.
He put it on the couch, where all of his treasures go...
I threw it back on the floor...
FINALLY, after his Thanksgiving meal, he decided that I was NEVER going to feed him again, because he whined and begged and pouted...
So, up on the couch it went.
I heard a few crunches and then he hopped down.
No more Pigs tail!!
Wuf, Wuf, Uncle Kevin!
Aunt Cheryl Sent him a stale cookie...no sniffing, just CRUNCH!
Cheryl finds the cutest cups/containers!
It is just PERFECT!
Cheryl's husband, Jerry, is a master craftsman.
This phone holder is a work of art.
I can't wait to get it painted!
Oh, my goodness.
Those Cadbury Candies were so yummy,
I went and bought a package to put in with some of my orders.
Yes, I still have some left.
No, I would NEVER feed Charcoal dark chocolate, because dark chocolate is TOXIC to animals.
I LOVE when Cheryl goes to playing with cookie dough,
and if there is a frog,
I am so happy when it HOPS to my house!
I LOVE the posite!!
We are NOT going to share
Jerry's comment about this frog...bad, Jerry, bad...
Santa Clause is Watching YOU!! ;)
Poor froggie...
Charcoal had several POUTING moments...
He does NOT like the word NO.
His head might be lowered and turned away,
but those eyes are cutting to see what I am doing!
Poor Charcoal...
Maybe Mommie needs to throw that towel away!
I was so excited to find LifeSavers
AND Butter Rum Lifesavers
When I shared on my FB wall,
I discovered that I was not the only one
who had fond memories of these treats!!
I am going to send a few to some special friends.
I also made Mother's favorite Cranberry Relish.
She loved this stuff and made it for Christmas and for Thanksgiving
AND she took some each time to 2 of her special friends.
I remembered those times fondly.
Now, this stuff isn't for everyone, but it is PERFECT
for anything that is salty.
for anything that is salty.
Yes, we will NOT speak of the amount of sugar involved, either...
it is only twice a year, right?
It is simple.
Grind the following in a food processor:
Bag of Fresh Cranberries
2 oranges--with peeling.
2 Apples--with peeling
Add sugar to taste . Start with 3/4 cup of sugar and add until you are happy with it. With this batch, I used 3 small halos, cutting off the thick peeling at the top, and 3 Jonathan apples, since my fruit was small AND boy, HOWDY, it was SOUR! I added 1 1/4 cups of sugar--just keep your mouth closed!
If I use navel oranges, I always cut off the thick part of the peeling and much of the sides, since it is so thick. A little bit of peel goes a long way. You don't want the bitterness to overpower the relish.
And yes, cut out the center of the apples.
The color is absolutely beautiful!!
This was my Thanksgiving Feast:
Green beans cooked with onions, ham and potatoes,
and always, at the end, a splash of vinegar is added.
Cranberry Relish
Chicken and Dressing
Macaroni with a can of Crushed Tomatoes and Cheddar Cheese.
Served on Mother's White Grape Plates she got for Christmas in about 1972 as a gift from her Sisters.
This is Charcoal's Plate...no onions, no salt and he did NOT
like that I put the Cranberry Relish on his plate...
Well, he LOVES oranges, so I tried!!
He LOVED his Thanksgiving Meal...
and wanted more...more...more..
He thought that STEALING the rest of the PupPeroni
would fill his stomach...
Those things STINK and are far more toxic
than any food I make to feed him!
It looks like his is crying
Maybe he is just starving....
My friend, Lois, finds the cutest frogs to send me.
This was a Birthday gift.
Oh, how fun is this!
AND she hand painted these
adorable magnets that were in
the www.paintingezine.com
I love them and they will stay
on my freezer all year long!
I am so blessed.
I made these Taco Bites this week, also.
Yum, Yum, YUM!
I had to send them to the Testing Lab...
He did the ole turn my head and get that away from me...
Oh, and for those that are fearful,
His had no salt or seasoning.
Hamburger, cheese and Flour Tortillas.
Ah, but YES...
Lab TESTED and APPROVED!!
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I hope that you all are Thankful.
We ALWAYS can find something to garner our Thanks.
Some days, we have to look a little harder...
We get stuck in a "funk" sometimes,
But YOU have the power to MOVE to a better place.
By being Thankful,
I believe that it stirs us to
do GOOD WORKS
To offer Kindness
To spread HOPE
To, well, BLOOM!
I tell you...Life just doesn't
get much better than this!!
I am simply blessed to create~~charlotte♡
Thanks for sharing..my doggies eat. Like yours does..lol..going to try the chicken and dressing recipe when I can gt to the store..keep me.in your prayers also..thanks again....love reading your post..
ReplyDeleteI am delighted you shared your dressing and cranberry recipe..I will probably make it for Christmas dinner. Love Charcoals pout..Raggs doesn't pout..she glares..LOL
ReplyDeleteI LOVED reading this post. I have seen snippets of it here and there on Facebook, but reading here all at once was better. Wow! What a wonderful food week you and Charcoal had! I love that you share in your bounty with him. You two are so good for each other and we all can feel the love. :)
ReplyDeleteLike you, I share many of my creations with my kitty Pancakes. The other two don't have much interest, but Pancakes is my fellow 'FOODIE' and loves to investigate everything I eat. I am also sure that what I allow him to sample is not toxic to him. It is what responsible pet owners do. There have been a couple of instances when I have been scolded online for my feeding him, but they were completely unwarranted. Sometimes people just don't check. But we do. :)
I make a cranberry relish that uses oranges also. Mine also has onions with it. Like you - I am amazed at the amount of sugar it takes to make it taste sweet enough. I still leave mine on the tart side though. I found that brown sugar makes it a bit 'mellower' than white. I discovered this because the bag was on the counter one day when I was making a big dinner and this relish and I was - well - too lazy to go get the white sugar. Who would have thought?
As you said - it is only a couple of times per year and it should be enjoyed to the fullest. I truly believe that. Life is too short to pick. Thanks so much for not only your wonderful and insightful posts, but for your friendship as well. My life is richer with you in it! Love you my friend! xo
We give our girls Thanksgiving dinner here too. Their dry food, moistened, steamed green beans and mashed potatoes and the REAL treat, turkey, not much but enough to make them happy.
ReplyDeleteYou take wonderful care of Charcoal, never let anyone tell you differently.
Hugs